"Can we afford the lake house?"The wrong question. The real one is where the money comes from.
A family finds the lake house. They need $900,000, and the simplest path is to sell some stock. But the simplest path is rarely the cheapest. The question isn't whether they can afford it. It's where the money should come from.
A purchase is one decision. How it's funded touches taxes, the portfolio, the reserve, and the estate, all at once.
One purchase. A half-dozen funding paths, each with a different after-tax cost.
Same house. A different cost of owning it.
In the room, modeled together before the offer: investment plan, CPA, lender, and the estate plan.